"Trust Issues: Navigating Betrayal and Addiction in a Long-Term Marriage"

Long-term marriage struggles as a husband’s past infidelity and current secrecy regarding a co-worker hike erode trust, highlighting issues of Wolf behavior and the need for Harm reduction.

• The letter writer, celebrating 30 years of marriage with her husband Bob, has faced trust issues due to his previous two-year affair with a co-worker and current secretive behavior.
• Bobs lone wolf personality prevents open communication, leading to significant distrust, especially after the writer discovered his hike with a young co-worker just before his retirement.
• The couples financial situations, involving a bank account managed by a financial adviser, add to the tension, as the writer considers seeking psychotherapy or consulting a lawyer for guidance.